1️⃣ The “Return Word” Technique

A return word is a unique, pre-agreed family word that signals your child must return immediately. Examples:

• “Pineapple!”
• “Red!”
• “Superhero!”

It cuts through noise, distraction, and panic — and prevents hesitation during risky moments, such as unusual behaviour nearby.

2️⃣ Positioning: Children on the Inside

When walking:

• Child on the inside
• Parent nearest unknown people
• Child within 1–2 seconds reach
• Parent always between child and potential risk

This prevents surprise grabs and keeps children protected during unexpected behaviour.

3️⃣ Behavioural Red Flags Around Children

Watch carefully for:

• Staring or fixating on children
• Shadowing families at a distance
• Pacing, sudden agitation or unpredictability
• Standing unusually close to child areas without purpose
• Hiding hands or adjusting clothing oddly

4️⃣ Micro-Movements: Calm, Controlled Distance

When something feels off:

• Bring your child close immediately
• Move to a busier area
• Place obstacles (trees, benches, fences) between you and the person
• Turn your body to face potential risk
• Relocate early — never wait for confirmation

5️⃣ Teaching Calm, Confident Awareness

Kids don’t need fear — they need simple, powerful rules:

• “If you feel unsure, come straight to me.”
• “Stay where I can see you.”
• “If I say the return word, come immediately.”
• “If someone makes you uncomfortable, tell me instantly.”