Module 5 — Sexting, Sextortion & Image Misuse
Real-world safety guidance for teens, young adults, parents & educators.
You are not alone. You are not to blame.
Pressure can come from partners, online strangers, or classmates.
It often starts with:
“If you loved me, you’d send it.”
“Everyone does this now.”
“Just trust me, I won’t show anyone.”
**Nobody has the right to ask you for sexual images.**
Love, respect and trust never need proof.
Sometimes the person pressuring you is a boyfriend, girlfriend or someone you really like.
That can make it feel even harder to say no.
Red flags:
- They get angry or sulky when you set a boundary
- They say you’re “boring” or “childish” if you refuse
- They threaten to break up if you don’t send something
Once an image is sent, it can be:
- Screenshot
- Saved secretly
- Forwarded to others
- Posted in group chats or anonymous sites
• Remove images from platforms • Get support from schools, parents, charities • Report people who shared them without consent
Sextortion is when someone threatens to share your images unless you:
• Pay money
• Send more images
• Keep talking or meeting them
They might say they’ve already messaged your family or school.
They want you panicking. When you panic, they have power.
AI tools can paste your face onto someone else’s body and make it look real.
They often steal:
• Profile photos
• Holiday pictures
• Selfies from social media
You might be blackmailed using images that aren’t even real.
This is still serious and still a crime.
Thousands of people have gone through this.
Many never meant for it to happen – they were tricked, pressured, scared, or in love.
You still deserve:
• Safety
• Respect
• A future without this hanging over you
Asking for help is a sign of strength.
Someone online convinces you to send an image.
A few hours later:
“Send £500 or I send this to your mum, your friends and your school.”
You feel sick. Your heart is pounding.
You might think:
“If I just pay once, it will go away.”
But in most real cases, once money is sent, they ask for more.
The safest option is to:
• Stop replying
• Save evidence
• Tell an adult you trust
• Report to police
Many young people see sexting as “normal” or part of relationships.
Shame and fear often stop them from telling you when something goes wrong.
Your role isn’t to judge. It’s to:
- Stay calm if they disclose
- Reassure them they’re not to blame
- Help them report and remove content
- Support them emotionally
Try open, non-judgemental conversations:
- “What would you do if someone asked you for a picture?”
- “If anything ever went wrong online, you can tell me. I won’t flip.”
- “We’ll deal with it together, no matter what it is.”
Seek urgent support if:
- Your child is being threatened or blackmailed
- Images have been shared in school or online
- There are signs of self-harm, withdrawal, or panic
1. Preserve evidence: screenshots of threats/usernames 2. Do not forward images: (this can create legal issues) 3. Report content: to the platform, school, and police where appropriate 4. Use support services: UK charities, helplines, mental health support
Your child tells you they sent an image and are now being threatened.
Your first reaction might be shock, anger or panic.
They will study your face to see if it’s safe to continue talking.
A helpful response:
“Thank you for telling me. I’m glad you did. We’ll sort this out together.”
Then move to calm, practical steps:
• Gather facts
• Preserve evidence
• Contact appropriate support
🚀 More Coming Soon
This module will grow to include interactive roleplays, step-by-step crisis planners, audio guidance, and printable resources for schools and families.
1. Stop replying to them – do not argue or beg.
2. Take screenshots of messages, usernames and profiles.
3. Do not send any money or more images.
4. Tell a trusted adult, friend, or support service immediately.
5. Report the account on the platform and to police if you feel unsafe.
You are not alone. You are not to blame. There is always a way forward.

