đź§ Aware360 Psychology Module
Understanding the Mind – From Survival to Strength
For Adults, Teens, and Children
🔹SECTION 1: THE MIND IN ACTION – THINKING VS REACTING
đź§ Adults:
- The conscious mind is responsible for reasoning, logic, and awareness. It’s deliberate and slow.
- The subconscious mind is emotional, fast, and automatic. It stores habits, fears, beliefs, and memories.
- Under stress, your subconscious often takes over before your conscious mind has time to think.
đź§ Teens:
- Your prefrontal cortex (the logical part) is still developing.
- Strong emotions and impulsive actions are common. It doesn’t mean you’re broken — it means your brain is still wiring itself.
đź§ Children:
- Your brain has two main parts:
- The wise owl: helps you make good choices
- The barking dog: helps protect you fast when scared
- When you’re calm, the owl works. When scared, the dog takes over.
🎯 Activity: Draw or describe a time when your “thinking brain” helped you vs when your “reacting brain” took over.
đź§© Quiz: Which part helps you make smart choices?
âś… The wise owl (thinking brain)
🔹SECTION 2: THE AMYGDALA & BRAIN UNDER STRESS
What is the Amygdala?
- The amygdala is the fear and emotional response centre of your brain.
- It responds to perceived danger and hijacks your ability to think clearly. This is called an “amygdala hijack.”
What Happens?
- Tunnel vision
- Increased heart rate
- Sweaty palms
- Freeze, panic, or aggression
- Later: regret or shame
đź§ Adults:
- Ongoing amygdala hijacks cause burnout, anxiety, poor memory, and poor decision-making.
đź§ Teens:
- You might cry, shout, freeze, or overthink without knowing why. That’s your amygdala acting before your logic can help.
đź§ Children:
- Outbursts, hiding, or saying “I hate you” — these are emotional responses, not “naughtiness.”
🛠️ Reset Tools:
- 4-7-8 breathing
- Cold water splash
- Name 5 things you can see, 4 you can touch, 3 you hear, 2 you smell, 1 you love
đź§© Quiz: What part of the brain activates fight or flight?
âś… Amygdala
🔹SECTION 3: FIGHT, FLIGHT, FREEZE, FAWN
Survival Responses:
đź§ Adults:
- Learn your default response. In trauma, many freeze or fawn — it’s not weakness, it’s instinct.
đź§ Teens:
- You may shout, storm off, or stay quiet even when you’re angry. Learn to notice and manage this.
đź§ Children:
- If you scream, run away, or say sorry too much — you’re not bad. You’re in survival mode.
🛠️ Reprogram Through Practice:
- Martial arts
- Role play
- Breathing under pressure
- Confidence-building routines
🔹SECTION 4: BRAIN BIASES & MENTAL FILTERS
What Are Biases?
- Biases are mental shortcuts. They help us make quick decisions — but often lead to false beliefs in stressful situations.
Common Biases:
- Negativity Bias – One bad thing outweighs ten good ones
- Confirmation Bias – We only notice what supports what we already believe
- Overconfidence Bias – Thinking we’re safer/smarter than we are
- Availability Heuristic – Judging risk based on vivid news or memories
- Emotional Reasoning – “I feel scared, so it must be dangerous”
đź§ Adults:
- Biases affect leadership, judgment, and safety decisions. Learn to question your assumptions.
đź§ Teens:
- Social media amplifies bias. If you always compare yourself to others, your brain starts lying to you.
đź§ Children:
- Failing once doesn’t mean you’re bad at something. That’s just a “brain trick.”
🎯 Activity: Write down a recent belief or fear. Ask: Is this fact, or feeling?
🔹SECTION 5: TRAUMA, STRESS & THE BODY-MIND CONNECTION
Trauma Isn’t Just What Happened — It’s How You Store It
đź§ Adults:
- Trauma can be emotional neglect, betrayal, violence, accidents, or criticism.
- Symptoms: sleep issues, anger, hyper-alertness, emotional shutdown, body aches.
đź§ Teens:
- Trauma shows up as:
- Overachievement or withdrawal
- Perfectionism or rage
- Self-harm or numbness
đź§ Children:
- Symptoms: regression, tantrums, nightmares, clinging, “spacing out,” aggressive play.
Recovery Tools:
- Safe environments
- Creative expression
- Movement (walk, dance, Jiu-Jitsu)
- Talking or drawing feelings
- Routine and rest
đź§ Tip: Your body remembers even when your mind forgets.
🔹SECTION 6: BODY LANGUAGE, POSTURE & TONE
Non-Verbal Power
93% of your message is non-verbal: body language, voice tone, eye contact.
đź§ Adults:
- Slouching shows insecurity. Open posture shows confidence.
- Voice tone can calm or escalate a situation.
đź§ Teens:
- Be aware of your body — how you walk into a room changes how people treat you.
đź§ Children:
- Teach:
- “Strong stance” = feet planted, chin up
- “Safe hands” = no fists
- “Brave eyes” = look ahead, not down
🎯 Drills:
- Mirror posture
- Try three greeting styles (friendly, shy, aggressive)
- Record your tone and analyze it
🔹SECTION 7: MENTAL CONDITIONING & EMOTIONAL RESILIENCE
The Brain is Like a Muscle — It Needs Training
Tools:
- Mental Rehearsal – Visualize successful outcomes
- Anchoring – Link a calm feeling to a physical movement
- Self-Talk – Speak to yourself like someone you love
đź§ Adults:
- “I’m not failing — I’m learning.” Reframe your internal dialogue.
- Train daily under light pressure so you’re ready when it’s real.
đź§ Teens:
- Mind gym: 5 minutes a day to reset your focus, confidence, and self-image.
đź§ Children:
- Repeat: “I’m strong. I’m brave. I can try again.”
- Use breathing colors (blue = calm, red = release)
🔹SECTION 8: DEALING WITH OTHERS – HUMAN BEHAVIOUR
Red Flag Behaviours:
- Gaslighting
- Threats or intimidation
- Blame-shifting
- Guilt-tripping
- Silent treatment
đź§ Adults:
- Set emotional boundaries. You don’t need to explain yourself to people who disrespect you.
đź§ Teens:
- Learn the difference between:
- Assertive: calm and clear
- Passive: scared and quiet
- Aggressive: loud and blaming
đź§ Children:
- Practice saying:
- “Stop.”
- “I don’t like that.”
- “Please leave me alone.”
- “I need help.”
🎯 Role Play: Deal with difficult people in school, work, family, or public.
🔹SECTION 9: RESILIENCE, ROUTINE & RECOVERY
Resilience = Training + Rest + Support
Essentials:
- Sleep: 7–9 hours
- Nutrition: fuel the brain
- Movement: daily
- Support: friends, coaches, mentors
- Mindset: “Tough times don’t last. I do.”
đź§ Daily Tracker:
- Moved my body
- Ate nourishing food
- Spoke kindly to myself
- Connected with someone I trust
- Practiced one calm-down method
âś… FINAL CHECKLIST
- I understand how my brain responds to danger
- I know my default response (fight/flight/freeze/fawn)
- I can use breathing or grounding tools
- I can recognize manipulative behavior
- I train my mindset like a muscle
- I know how to support myself and others through psychology

